I am 42 yrs old and for the past year I have started having hot flashes, but t seems to have gone away except now they are replaced with my vision has increasingly deteriorating and now im hoping my new glasses will help with this problem,, BUT the worst of my problems are that i am not really feeling vaginal dryness but i have been getting what feels like tiny electric shocks that are located to the right side just below my hip bone.. i weigh 125lb, and active but what scares me is?? well i guess the best way of describing is.. when i looked at myself with a mirror about 2 months or longer ago.. my vagina didnt look as cute as it once did..lol.. it looks like it was used and abused and believe me... thats not the case.. well im not deprived but... upon looking yukky like an a chewed venus fly trap... i have been experiencing bleeding alot.. not just after sex but out of the blue.. i could be fine for 2=3 days finally thinking i am good to have sex and if i do.. i dont bleed right away but maybe 1 day after or 2 days .... then its like full period menstral and cramping.. but it last a full weed again,, then goes away then comes back.. i have been dealing with this for 4 months.. i looked just the other day with a mirror and was freaked out... my vagina looks like it is falling out or has a ribbed skinny tectured thing.. and just looks worse then 2 months ago... what is going on with me... help..i dont experience any pain just bleeding all the time.. i have also been getting dizzy spells the past week and to the point i am sitting in a chair but feel i am going to fall out of it???  i am booking a dr. appointment this week.. but what can i expect to hear???