• Izzy Izzy
    July 13, 2009
    What happens to a girl when she loses her virginity?
    Izzy Izzy
    July 13, 2009

    I'm a virgin and I want to know what happens/what I would feel once I decide to have sex just out of curiosity.

    Will it hurt? Does it bleed? Is it likely to bleed?

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  • Merely Me
    Health Guide
    July 14, 2009
    Merely Me
    Health Guide
    July 13, 2009

    Hi Izzy

     

    Well all I can say is that the first time is going to be different for everyone.  In all good conscience I do want to say a few things to you.

     

    1.  Your viriginity is precious meaning...once you do this you can never go back.  Make sure it is the right time and with the right person. 

     

    2.  If you are planning to have sexual intercourse you need to think about protection not only so you don't become pregnant but also so you don't get a sexually transmitted disease.

     

    3.  This is your body.  It is okay to say no. 

     

    Okay now that that is out of the way...

     

    Yes it might hurt and especially the first time.  You also may likely bleed but this is not a given.  You may feel uncomfortable emotionally and physically. 

     

    Here is a very good resource which talks all about what your first time may be like.

     

    I hope this helps some.  Please be careful.


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  • Perplexedbywomen September 04, 2009
    Perplexedbywomen
    July 13, 2009

    It's a small price to pay, whatever the discomfort, for the pay-off that your little opening will entitle you.

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  • Laqrimaszx13 August 04, 2011
    Laqrimaszx13
    July 13, 2009

    It will hurt but not alot n yeah u wll bleed but it normal

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  • tiffany21 November 20, 2013
    tiffany21
    July 13, 2009

    I didnt blees much. At first it was a slight pain maybe a 5 on a scale of 1 to 10. Then discomfort. I felt weird after and no one had told me what to expect.  But I got through it. It really isnt that bad as long as he knows ur a virgin and as long as he is gentle and takes it slow you will be fine I was 14 and so nervous and scared when I lost my virginity.  I am now 21 and loooooove sex!!!!!!

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  • tiffany21 November 20, 2013
    tiffany21
    July 13, 2009

    I didnt blees much. At first it was a slight pain maybe a 5 on a scale of 1 to 10. Then discomfort. I felt weird after and no one had told me what to expect.  But I got through it. It really isnt that bad as long as he knows ur a virgin and as long as he is gentle and takes it slow you will be fine I was 14 and so nervous and scared when I lost my virginity.  I am now 21 and loooooove sex!!!!!!

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  • tiffany21 November 20, 2013
    tiffany21
    July 13, 2009

    I didnt blees much. At first it was a slight pain maybe a 5 on a scale of 1 to 10. Then discomfort. I felt weird after and no one had told me what to expect.  But I got through it. It really isnt that bad as long as he knows ur a virgin and as long as he is gentle and takes it slow you will be fine I was 14 and so nervous and scared when I lost my virginity.  I am now 21 and loooooove sex!!!!!!

    READ MORE
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