I have a septate hymen as well and i am 15 years old.
I never knew it was different than other hymens so never mentioned it or questioned why it was so hard to take out tampons. My boyfriend and i have sex quite often and it never was a problem getting in, i just had to be wet enough, recently though, we were having sex and i opened my legs really wide and felt a sharp pain, i dismissed it and we kept going, when we looked down there was blood everywhere and we both thought i started my period, i put in a tampon and went to bed. The next morning i felt discomfort in my vagina and took out my tampon and noticed a bloody 'string' of flesh hanging down. It was my hymen, now, you can either deal with it for the rest of your life or go to the gyeno to get it cut off painlessly in less then ten minutes, i have an appointment to get mine cut next week, disregarding my embarrasment,
so DONT cut it by yourself. go to a doctor, its worth it
There is no way to tell you this is okay. None.
The risk of infection or harming your sexual, or reproductive health, is far too great.
A doctor, in a clean environment, using sterile, surgical instruments is the only way if you do not choose to do it by intercourse.
I don't know if you are the same girl who wrote in recently but the answer is what the answer is. It's not safe, and no one can tell you it is okay to perform surgery.
You're asking a question no one can legally answer. Even a doctor, over the internet, would never give you permission to do this. I wish there were a way to help you.
If you make an appointment, they will want to know what you wish to see the doctor about. You just tell them you have a partially torn hymen and you want to seek the doctor's advice about having it removed completely.
I don't know your age, but if you are a minor, you may need parental permission, but the office will tell you about that. You may also need to use your parent's insurance, if any.