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Q: Psychology Impotence & Performance Anxiety. How can I over come it?

For a few years now, I've been have a problem with being Impotent. And it's not that I can't get an erection, because I get them all the time. I get them some times when i don't need to (lol). But when it comes down to be intimate with a person, not matter who it is (could be a new person, or a long time friend) I freeze up. I start having negative thoughts. And loose my erection. I've even taken pills to see if that would help. No. Doesn't.

 

I'm physically in shape. No high blood pressure or anything. I eat healthy. And I can't seem to get pass this. It's starting to contribute to me being depressed. Can anyone point me in the correct direction to over come this issue?

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9/ 4/09 8:41pm

Maybe I have some words of comfort to offer.

The woman who presents her vulva to you has already taken you for a test drive and has decided to make an offer.

She will provide you with sexual services for a period of about one year in exchange for all of your lifetime earnings.  To ensure that she's receiving an equitable trade, she'll expect you to throw-in your testicles and some humiliating behavior.  You'll be expected to grovel at her feet in exchange for sex that isn't going to happen but she'll always be able to convince you that it MIGHT.

Now that you have a clear understanding of feminine sexuality, maybe you can dispense with the self-doubt and performance anxiety.  What do you care about your performance; after all, you're giving up all of your lifetime earnings in exchange for about a year's worth of sex.  Enjoy.

Hope this helps.

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By healthystart— Last Modified: 12/26/10, First Published: 08/19/09