At birth, i had my left testcle removed. It went through torsion and was already dead, and to save me, it was taken out. At 18, I kept experienceing torsion in my remaining testicle. i went through a surgery where it was stitched down. Since I have often been uncomfrotable, often experiencing pain, etc. My doc says it is unrelated, but anyway...I don't know if that is why, but I am 6'3", 230lbs, with a flacid 2.5", and erect 4.5"-5.5", depending on timing? There is much i can't do sexually-staying in, resching spots, etc. and it has come to the point where it seems like my life revolves around my small penis..I constantly think about it-10-25 times a day. Every time i feel good about myself, my mind goes there, and I feel awful, everytime I feel awful, my mind goes there, and it gets worse. I'm not really sure what to do, or where to go, but is has become an obsession in my mind, and has gotten worse over the past couple years. Lately, the past 6 months, i have started to hae bad thoughts, and think i really need some help, where can I turn, what can i do?
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I'm sorry that you are feeling so down about your situation. I somehow sense that despite your obvious concerns you also feel that you have lost some perspective. In that regard I have to agree, but it can be very hard to establish a sense of mastery over a situation that has developed over time.
A lot of young men have particular concerns about penis size. In your case you have perfectly average dimensions yet you perceive yourself as somehow lacking. In part, I suspect, you have an ideal that you are not measuring up to. I'm also very pleased to see that a girl has responded to your posting in a very positive light.
I think you could consider therapy as an option to help reconstruct your thought processes. A therapist will be able to work with you and guide your thinking into alternatives that are more constructive and less negative or obsessive in nature. There are many good counseling psychologists, or clinical psychologists who may be able to help. The American Psychological Association provide a handy locator so that you can see who is available in your area.
let me just say this once. you are fine!!! as a girl, I'm freaked out about big penises. your penis size is absoultley perfect for a girl like me, I wouldn't want anything bigger. When your erect, that's absolutley perfect. For me, anything bigger than 5 inches is scary because when the man thrusts it feels like a punch in the stomach. Ahh I can just feel you now, tight and snug inside my pussy, mmm I'd fuck you!
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