Tough Questions
The most important ingredients for success in interfaith relationships are communication, respect, and understanding. For starters, both partners should devote some time to learning about the other's faith and beliefs. The following issues are important for interfaith couples to consider. Once these issues have been identified, the couple can work together to find solutions.
- How will your family react to your interfaith relationship, and can you accept their reaction?
- Will one partner convert to the other's faith? Will he or she observe the other's faith and participate in its holidays, traditions, and symbolism?
- How will children be raised? Will they have dual religions?
- Which holidays will be celebrated?
As one half of an interfaith couple, I expect to encounter obstacles along the way, but overall, I feel optimistic. By demonstrating a willingness to learn about each other's faiths, my partner and I will teach our children the importance of respecting others in spite of their differences. This lesson is a cornerstone of most religions, no matter what holidays you celebrate.
