- Don't hop into bed wearing nothing but a nurse's cap and a condom and holler, "Honey, guess what I'm into?"
- Do discuss your fetish, honestly and openly, in a neutral, nonnaked zone with your partner as early in the relationship as possible (but not on the first date!).
- Don't be surprised if your partner is a little baffled or turned off at first. We're conditioned to react that way to kinky sex, so be patient, not pushy, when you break the news.
- Do take the time to figure out your fetish, such as what you like and why, how important it is in your life and how it makes you feel. You need to be comfortable with your feelings before you spring your fetish on your partner. They're bound to have questions about your kink, and you'll need to have the answers.
- Don't make your partner feel like they "owe" it to you to become a fan of your fetish.
- Don't lie about or be ashamed of your fetish. Your partner will probably pick up on your guilt and react as if your behavior is dirty or something to be embarrassed about.
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