Oral Sex Tips

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Basic Road Rules

Start with indirect stimulation. The clitoris, like the nipples, and the penis, for that matter, is highly sensitive. If you stimulate it right away, your partner may find it more irritating than titillating. Instead, start with the area surrounding the clitoris. After a short time of arousal, she'll be ready for you to hone in on the big C.
Be tentative. While you may favor a strong grip while you're choking the chicken, a woman is probably used to softer strokes and a lighter touch, at least in the beginning. And while we're on the subject, forget the diving tongue. Your tongue isn't a substitute penis, mimicking intercourse. Instead, think of oral sex as another color in the crayon box. Flicking, rubbing, nibbling, and nuzzling are the name of the game.
Use your fingers as well as your lips and tongue. Just because it's called oral sex doesn't mean you have to tie your hands behind your back. This isn't soccer.
Use your tongue (for talking). Many women are shy about having a guy's face between their legs. They may be hung up on how they look, taste, or smell. You can make her feel more comfortable (so she will be more likely to relax and enjoy the experience) by letting her know that you're into it, too. It never hurts to say, "You look so sexy," or "You taste so good."

Obligatory Buzz Kill
While you can't get pregnant during cunnilingus, there is a risk of STDs, including genital herpes and warts. During menstruation, there is an increased risk of transmitting HIV if the woman is HIV positive. A barrier method of protection (such as a dental dam or square piece of latex) is recommended for any sexual encounter, oral or otherwise, to prevent transmission.