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I am sorry you are hating your skin right now. An article you may want to read is how Our Image of Beauty May be Contributing to Skin Cancer.
Pale is not unattractive. In fact some of the most beautiful people in the world have pale skin. So don't let being pale get you down. If you want to tan use a self-tanner and don't do it by tanning in the sun or at a tanning salon. Make-up can also help including the use of a bronzer.
Here too is some advice about how to deal with large pores.
Hope this helps some. Let us know if you need any more resources.
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