Thanks for your post doctor.  It certainly made me pause and think of what I might do in your situation.  I have 3 little girls and believe me I am getting ready.  I'm not sure if I will ever be faced with the same kind of situation, but I applaud your judgment in doing what is best for your daughter.  Your reserve is truly what is required by parents - while still helping her to become who she truly is meant to be.

I suspect there are many of us moms out there wondering what we would do.  Maybe some of you have already had to make these decisions - with sucecss or regret.  Please let us know so we can learn from you.  Post a comment or new sharepost.