I just got married last January after being divorced for 13 years. I relized that we got married to soon. Right after we got married he changed completely. He began to drink a lot and started picking fights with me in the middle of the night after he would drink too much. He brought drugs into the house around my 2 children. I also lost my job and have not had any steady work. I moved in with a friend and she said I would not have to pay her for anything. I have not worked in 2 months and have been looking for work left and right. She recently came to me and siad she needs help with the bills. I have told her that I do not expect to stay somewhere free. Once, I start working she will recieve some compensation for helping me . But, she is now putting me down saying I am a freeloader and that I have not helped her with anything financial. She is very materialistic. So, I told her I would move out in a week . My kids do not live with me at this time because I am not financially stable. They aslo have a father that neglects them and does not teach them manners. My oldest kid has been diagnosed with ADHD. He is on Staterra when he gets hid meds. So, all this is making me feel like I can't do anything right as much as I try. My parents actually turn their backs on me also. That also has been very dificult for me because my husband has been talking bad of me to my parents and they take his word for it . How should I deal with all this? What would be the steps on need to start off on all of this?

 I am also going to lose a lot of my stuff because I have a storage unit that I owe a lot on and if it is not paid by feb 1st I lose it all. Please, someone help me.