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Well put!  Eventually you do learn to go with the flow, and what sacrifices we pay now will only benefit our children in the future.  At first you try to look for the answers until you finally learn that there is no answer.  You do what you have to no matter how painful or tiring it is.  It is about our little angels, our futures, our everythings.  I personally could not stomach the thought of leaving my daughter in a dark room alone and helpless to "cry it out."  It feels completely unnatural to me, and i would rather her feel that i am there for her when things become firghtening.  We are their heroes!