Babies are meant to have all the attention from their parents BOTH DAY AND NIGHT!!  Dont let your baby cry him/herself to sleep! Thats not healthy at all!! Babies need mommy or daddy or both!!! Its not suppose to be easy taking care of a child! One day youre going to miss this, you're gonna have regreats.. you're going to miss baby days and wish you could go back to that one time when they were babies and just hold them and love them because one day they will be grown and out of the house and you will be all alone.. sure they will come and visit ever so often if any... but for now you have this beautiful baby.. enjoy it.. spend as much time as you can with him or her.Sleep with them... Spoil them... but most importantly love and care for them. After all they are our future!! Remember... we are not promised tomorrow! So live for today!