My Boyfriend Can Only Reach Climax When I Am On Top And Even So He Takes Forever...

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My Boyfriend Can Only Reach Climax When I Am On Top And Even So He Takes Forever...

My boyfriend of almost a year takes forever to ejaculate and can only do so when I'm on top. We have mixed it up but I think this is a problem because no matter what, he can't climax in any other position. He says this has happened in the past and says he has only climaxed once while he was on top. Not only that but sometimes I go so long trying to get him to climax that it hurts me. We constantly feel bad about ourselves after sex, so much so that we have cut back significantly and I'm getting worried that things will get old quickly. What is going on and what can I do?

Answer

It sounds like your boyfriend may have a form of ED - erectile dysfunction - so both of you should read up on the ED connection and see if he may possibly have some physical reasons for his difficulties. You may also want to suggest that he get checked out by a doctor - possibly a urologist to rule out pathology. if it's not that then performance issues or some other non-physical issue may be going on.

Answered by Amy Hendel, P.A.