I M 47 Male And Musterbat Some Time Daily And Some Time After 2/3 Days Is It Bad For My Health

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Asked by Roshail

I M 47 Male And Musterbat Some Time Daily And Some Time After 2/3 Days Is It Bad For My Health

i m 47 year old man and workin out side of my country i meet my wife to after 4 month for 10 days ,i m alone here no G/friend and i watch adult movies and during the movei i rub(musterbat) long time(1 and 2 hour)my panis with oil is it bad for my health ?

Answer

Hi Roshail,

Masturbation is perfectly normal so I can't see that your physical health will be affected beyond perhaps feeling a bit fatigued! It seems to me however that you aren't very happy with your current situation. You see your wife for only 10 days every four months, you are lonely, and you have turned to self-stimulation through adult movies and long periods of masturbation. This aspect of your life doesn't sound very healthy - in fact you sound depressed - so rather than focusing on whether masturbation is a problem my advice is to look at your life and to examine other options. How long do you expect to go on like this? What effect is this having on your relationship? Are there alternatives - what are they?

Answered by Jerry Kennard, Ph.D., CPsychol., AFBPsS