When symptoms of bipolar flare, the result can look like a two-year-old having an ugly tantrum. If you walk downstairs to find your bipolar partner in a screaming fit, try to suspend judgment as best you can, much like you would with a toddler whose scoop of ice-cream just fell off the cone. He or she is reacting to the world as he or she sees it. So are you. Same world, two entirely different views. Take stock, determine where each of you are coming from. Apply a heavy dose of compassion. Resolve to work your way to an understanding.