How to Restore Your Sex Drive After Menopause
HealthAfter50 | Sept 27, 2016 Oct 19, 2016
Get your groove back
If you are experiencing a decline in your libido or sexual response, these eight tips can help get you back into the swing of things.
1. Go for a physical
Get a complete physical examination so that any underlying medical conditions can be treated. Though it may be difficult to talk to your doctor about sexual problems, he or she can be a valuable resource or can refer you to other professionals.
3. Kick butts
If you smoke, quit. Smoking contributes to erectile dysfunction in men and also may negatively affect sexual functioning in women.
4. Look into hormone therapy
If you and your doctor decide on testosterone therapy, use the lowest dose possible for the shortest time, taking it together with estrogen, and using patches, creams, or gels rather than pills. (Women with breast or uterine cancer or heart or liver disease should not take testosterone.)
5. Say no to supplements
Sexual-enhancement supplements are sold in drug and health-food stores and on the Internet. They contain various herbs, vitamins, and other nutritional ingredients, but none of these supplements are proved to be effective or safe. They can also interact with other drugs and be dangerous for people with certain health conditions.
6. Use lubricants
If vaginal dryness is a concern, over-the-counter lubricants (such as Replens, Astroglide, Vagisil, and K-Y Jelly) provide relief with no known side effects. During menopause, prescription estrogen creams, tablets, and rings for vaginal use (such as Estrace, Estring, and Vagifem) also may help, but their long-term safety is untested.
7. Do Kegel exercises
Kegel exercises help with vaginal tone and may make for more pleasurable sex. They involve repeatedly tightening and releasing the pelvic floor muscles, which are the muscles that also support the bladder and close the urinary sphincter.
8. Talk about it
If the problem is largely psychological or because of problems in your relationship, individual or couples therapy may help. Sex therapy also may be recommended. To find a therapist who specializes in sexual problems, contact the Society for Sex Therapy and Research or the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists.