I’m not being stubborn when I’m slow. I’m slow because it takes my mind time to figure out what I’m supposed to do and to process my environment. Even when you help me, confusion is constant. Please understand that if you say, “Dad, we need to hurry,” I will respond by feeling anxious. This anxiety can become so severe that I can hardly move. Please be patient. If it’s a bad day and we have a medical appointment, you might even have to cancel. I’m so sorry but, again, I can’t help it.